24.2.08 Behavior – those things we need to take off. Malvern@6

Tonight in our series of the abc’s of lent we are talking about behavior.
Remember clothes – its these behaviors that we take off. And the behaviors that we put on that really matter and its what others see. We communicate Jesus by what others see, they see our attitudes and they see our behavior.
Comes after attitudes because often our attitudes (or what we think) sets how we act. Not always but mostly.
Here are some descriptions I found on the internet of behavior as seen by employers;
· "Since my last report, this employee has reached rock-bottom and shows signs of starting to dig."
· "His men would follow him anywhere, but only out of morbid curiosity."
· "I would not allow this employee to breed."
· "This associate is really not so much of a has-been, but more of a definitely won't be."
· "Works well when under constant supervision and cornered like a rat in a trap."
· "When he opens his mouth, it seems that this is only to change whichever foot was previously in there."
· "He would be out of his depth in a parking lot puddle."
· "This young man has delusions of adequacy."
· "He sets low personal standards and then consistently fails to achieve them."
· "This employee should go far-and the sooner he starts, the better."
· "This employee is depriving a village somewhere of an idiot."
Behavior is an indicator of what is going on inside us. It tells us what people think about a certain circumstance. So for instance when you go to a crows port match you don’t even need to see any colures all you need to do to find out who barracks for who is to watch the behavior.
Behavior is very important in our culture. We often use such phrases as unacceptable behavior, dysfunctional behavior, bad behavior, erratic behavior. If you continue in what society says is bad behavior sooner or later you are going to end up as a guest of her majesty for varying amounts of time. Society see’s behavior as a reflection of who you are.
Now when we turn our attention to the bible there is a whole lot more for us to think about. God understands that behavior is something that sets us apart and something that is important for us as followers of Jesus. The Bible then is actually very explicit with behaviors and has things that are important for us to be mindful of. The Old Testament was full of behavior requirements, so for instance the ten commandments and all the deuteronomic law and the livitical law. This told the children of Israel what God expected of them as a holy people and a people who were meant to reflect God. Now this didn’t work to well as humanity soon found out that will power alone is not enough to produce good behavior. Much of our behavior is socially set so, when the children of Israel saw other nations doing strange cultic practices they just wandered away and were easily seduced into ungodly behavior. And God wasn’t happy!
But you see something happened when Jesus came. Jesus did a work in our hearts that allowed us to have more than just will power to overcome our behavioral issues. Jesus gives us a new heart. A heart that is assisted to follow God. Now I need to talk with you about this at great length but not right now! All I need to say is that Jesus actually gives us the tools to change our behavior. No longer do we have to just rely on our will power but we are at full liberty to ask Jesus for his help. Jesus does this through the work of the Holy Spirit in our lives. I can only tell you this because he has been doing it in mine!
When I encourage you to pray, I am not just suggesting that you should only pray for the sick people in the world or world poverty. But what I want you to do is to open your heart to the work of the Spirit and pray for yourself that you might now where the HS is wanting to change you into the image of Jesus.
And this really is the bottom line when we talk about Behavior as a Christian. Our behavior is modeled on Jesus and nothing else. In fact we must reject anything else!
Tonight I want to suggest 3 things that we need to take off. 3 overall principles that are important for us to grapple with in living with integrity and uprightness. 3 behaviors that we must deal with if we are to be a Jesus person. Now a Jesus person is someone who lives life like we are intended, they live life in the way we were made. This isn’t something that I have just made up, but something that is tried and tested by thousands of generations who have followed Jesus and who have found meaning and purpose beyond that of anyone else. This is not an easy way to live life, actually if you want an easy way then don’t follow Jesus. Do something else, wrestle a tiger or compete in a marathon or read the entire internet. Following Jesus is like what the hilltop hoods say its the hard road. And when we come to behaviors its an obvious indicator of whether you are on the hard road or not.
First let me read the important bits from psalm 1.
Blessed is the person who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers.
2 But their delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law they meditate day and night.
3 they are like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever they do prospers.
4 Not so the wicked! They are like chaff that the wind blows away.
5 Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous.
6 For the LORD watches over the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked will perish.
The psalm tells us three things in the opening verse about behavior. So lets work our way through them.
Culture
The first behaviour has to do with what the bible says is “walking in the counsel of the wicked”. Now I am sure that doesn’t make much sense to you but just give it a moment, because its actually quite obvious. When you walk with someone its like you share the road with them, essentially you go the same direction as they do. So for instance your mum says do you want to go for a walk with me means literally that both of you are going in the same direction. Unless your mum says you go to the video store and I will go and get some milk, she is expecting you to go with her in the exact same direction. Try and do otherwise!
Now, if you are a follower of Jesus how can you go in the same direction as people who are not? If you follow Gods plan for your life then how can you be in harmony with someone who just wants to do their own thing all the time?
Have you ever tried to walk with a dog that has wanted to go another way? Have you ever had a dog on a lead that wants to go off all the time to the side sniffing and smelling crossing the path in front of you! What happens is that your legs become tangled up in the lead and you end up falling over!
This is what will happen to a Christian who tries to follow the same course of a non Christian.
What I am trying to communicate to you in this point relates to the direction of your life and the behaviours that are associated with that. There are forces trying to pull you towards a different way. The drag of culture on your life should not be underestimated. Culture has a huge influence on your behaviour.
We are strongly influenced by the direction of society and the trends that we see.
So immediately that tells us we cannot act and behave the same as everyone else around us. We don’t follow advice that seems right for everyone else. If you follow Jesus then you are different than the rest. Its not enough to be a nice person. Nice people don’t always walk Gods ways.
So what does this look like?
· We should not have common morals – God calls us a holy people, that means we act in a right manner, we get our morals from the new testament and not from desperate house wives or Nova – you know what I mean (maybe another day I will speak at some length on this)
· We do not have an ordinary emphasis on money.
· We treat people differently – we don’t use or abuse or manipulate, we are careful with our words.
· We eliminate the attitudes of fear, or despair or unthankfulness.
We take off the walk of the person who does not follow Jesus in order to put on the one that does. Our actions reflect who we serve and not culture.
Influence
The second thing that the psalm says to us is this” Blessed is the person who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners

So the Psalm says that we don’t stand in the way of sinners. Again this sounds complicated. But lets thing about it like this, Not only do we not follow in the direction of everyone else but we don’t make it our habit to reside in a place where un-Christlike behaviour is endorsed. This is about the habits we foster in our lives and the people we let form those habits. Now I am not saying that we should give up our friends that don't hold to the same world view that we do. I am not saying that at all. Actually I am saying the opposite. Be with your friends, hang around them, love them support them enjoy them, go to their parties, laugh when they get drunk, and tickle their babies.
But what I do think the bible is saying is be careful of their influence in your life.
Let me illustrate it like this; when you were growing up your mum and dad would have set the agenda for your life (well mostly). So by and large you thought like they did, the things that were important to them were things that were important for you. In my upbringing books were important. Go into my office now and you will see it full of books – I love them. I love them because I was taught to love them, my parents influence rubbed off on my. The same is true for the company you keep. If you are not careful their priorities will become your priorities.
Suzie and I have been on a health kick for about 12 months; our kids have imbibed that and are now very discerning when it comes to putting things in their mouth! Its amazing the influence you have over people.
As followers of Jesus we need to analyse and be real about those influences our company have on us. We have to put off like a coat those unhelpful behaviours that come from the friends we keep. We need to stop letting their lives influence ours.
Now for some of us this means we actually need to find new friends. But for most of us we need to stop following our friends advice that leads us away from Jesus. The bible says ‘Do not be overcome by evil but overcome evil for good’. In other words you are the ones who should be influencing your friends. Now again this is not something that you have do to alone. The HS give us the energy to do this and to make this happen in our lives.
The behaviour that we need to take off looks something like this;
· All our friends are watching a DVD or internet that we know is not healthy for our Christian life. We should leave.
· Our friends are involved in something dodgy.
· There is constant backstabbing and pulling down of a member of the group when they are not there.
· The group picks on one person all the time.
· The norm is to drink heavily, smoke strangely, drug stupidly and drive recklessly.
You know what I am talking about. Don’t let that behaviour pull you down, because it ends up in nowhere road. Take those practices of. By the power of the HS be the positive influence.

Person

Finally the Bible says
Blessed is the person who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers.

So the last image the bible gives us is sitting in the seat of mocker. Again we need to think about this one. I think what it means is that we don’t resign ourselves to our fate. What I suggest by that is if we have some bad behaviour in our life. Some things of which we are aware, we don’t just let them sit and ignore them.
God calls us to so much more than where we are presently – and that is true for all of us. We don’t let ourselves remain in bad behaviour. We don’t sit with it, we don’t just let it all happen around us, but we get up and do something about it. Now some might say well that’s easy for you to say Jono but it’s a bit harder for me. Well, you know each of us have our own struggle in our own particular area. But this is one area that we have to really work hard at getting off.
Behaviours that have been part of our life quickly become habits. And habits are hard to shift.
But if you want to be a mature person then you must deal with the destructive habits of your life. If you want to develop and be the person that God intended then you have got to stop making excuses and get rid of the negative behaviour that is dragging you down.
You see God does not want us to be passive but to be proactive about our spirituality! He calls us to be involved in the world and to bring about change, not to sit in a place of self pity and denial. God wants to use you with his mission but not when you have all this negative stuff going on inside of you. The things of culture and the influences of our friends can cause us to be crippled to the things of God. But God says I have given you the gift of the HS but its up to you to want to change and move and mature.
So what exactly am I talking about, well let me name some that I think are a problem;
Some of us have made a habit out of drinking that will get out of control.
Some of us need to stop thinking about ourselves so much and begin to see what other needs there are in the world.
Some of us need to get our use of language under control
Some of us need to stop making excuses about why we are what we are and get on with it.
Some of us need to stop spending on ourselves.
Some of us have to take responsibility for our own actions.
Some of us need to be consistent in our devotional life (every day) and faithful in our worship (every week)
A man walking through the forest saw a fox that had lost its legs, and he wondered how it lived. Then he saw a tiger come up with game in its mouth. The tiger ate its fill and left the rest of the meat for the fox.
The next day God fed the fox by means of the same tiger. The man began to wonder at God's greatness and said to himself, "I took shall rest in a corner with full trust in the Lord and he will provide me with all that I need."
He did this for many days but nothing happened, and he was almost at death's door when he heard a voice say, "O you who are in the path of error, open your eyes to the truth. Stop imitating the disabled fox and follow the example of the tiger."
Sometimes there are more tigers here than in the Indian jungle. Its time we got up and got going.
Let me finish by saying this.
Behaviours come at a variety of levels. But its time to get wise to their impact on our lives and to behave more like Jesus. Jesus is the right way to live life. The right way to act, the right way to be. Remember you are a child of the king, its time to throw off all those things that aren’t consistent with that.

positive attitudes - dude!

Last week we focused on negative attitudes that symbolically we wear around like clothing. Fear, ingratitude and despair are three articles of clothing that we could all do without wearing. To be free we need to get those things off and get them out of our life.
(Like the truck we followed on Friday) They are like a bad smell hanging around us.
Tonight we concentrate on the opposite of these negative attitudes and we begin to think about how to live them in our life. How to live them out in our day to day activity.
As with many things our mind decides our attitudes - If you look at things through a negative perspective you will see negative things. If you look at things through a positive attitude you will see positives.
The bible describes these attitudes to be like clothes. Its the things that we put on to our lives. Things that have a lasting effect on ourselves but also on others as well.
These three things that are the topic of our discussion tonight are kingdom values. When I say kingdom values I mean things that Jesus endorses. Its elements of life that Jesus sees as important and wants to foster in his people. Its Gods way in our life.
Kingdom values are also the best way to live life. So if you follow a kingdom way of living then you are going to be living in the best possible manner. Actually – living in the way that you were intended! And when Jesus returns again – and make no mistake he will return – these values, this way of living with be an everyday event. Just like air.
So the three things that form tonight's topic are; faith, thankfulness and hope.
Faith
We do things by faith all the time. The internal combustion engine is an act of faith! Every time I go online a pay a bill or buy something it’s an act of faith. Getting to work on time is an act of faith. Who here knows what you are going to do tomorrow? - Planning for tomorrow is an act of faith!
We use faith all the time, every day. We operate by faith – if you really stop and think about it. We take it for granted.
But a spiritual attitude for faith well that’s something entirely different! Let me tell you what the bottom line of spiritual faith is and why it’s opposite to fear (which was last week).
An attitude of faith leads us to live our life in expectancy that all things are in God’s hands and that we can trust him.
Now when you read the bible its clear that there are two sources when it comes to faith
God gives you faith. Some people have the gift of faith – that is they can see what is yet to be put in place. They understand how God is working and can see his actions before they happen.
But also that faith is something you develop on your own. Most of us are asked to believe that God is good to his word. – it seems to me that there is enough information about God to believe if you want to or not enough information to doubt if you want to. Faith is trusting that God has you in his hand.
This is why it’s opposite to fear, because fear narrows down whereas faith opens up. Fear says its all ending and faith says it’s just the beginning. Fear doesn’t trust but faith does.
So how do you foster faith as a garment as an attitude in your life?
Moses on the mountain – cover your face. When you have been with Jesus then you will look like him. You cannot have faith in God unless you know God.
Use what you have got – so trust in a small circumstance that God has got your best interest at heart and go with that.
Faith does increase – like exercise.
Surround yourself with people who have got it and read stories of those who have great faith.
Consciously be asking him every day to see further than the rest. To look at life and circumstance with the eyes of faith.
When you live life out of faith, it is different because most people live life out of fear! And others will see and they will ask you what is going on in your life for you to be like that. And then you will be able to tell them about the one you have faith in. and it’s so simple. I have faith in Jesus because he has never let me or my family down and he has made so much sense of my life. I don’t have to be fearful, even though there is much to be afraid of.
Consciously wear the attitude of faith and see what happens this week – you will notice the difference.
Thankfulness
The second point - thankfulness
As I pointed out last week society is not too good with thankfulness. Thankfulness cuts across consumerism – and boy oh boy are we in love with consumerism! We love stuff, we love buying stuff, the more the better. Not many are thankful for what they have already got.
A survey done on mature Christians that identify thankfulness as a key component of their spirituality. That is mature well developed Christians are thankful people – they are satisfied with their lot in life and respond out of that to an extent that it shows. Not only are they thankful people they are happy and contented. And that’s something that many people would like to have. The more they try and find it with money the more it eludes them.
Not many people even say thank you these days. Many just expect. Do you find that? Do you find yourself expecting things because they are your right? That’s opposite to an attitude of thankfulness. And attitude of thankfulness says that everything is a gift from God, to be enjoyed, appreciated and treasured. Not taken for granted.
Marriage the prime example of thankfulness.
An attitude of thankfulness is living life seeing that all things come from the hand of God and that even thought we think we might not have enough we actually have all we need.
How do you foster an attitude of thankfulness in your life?
Only buy what you need not what you want – figuring out the difference in that is important.
The old %10 rule for tithing is actually important. You should give that much away every week.
Stop looking at catalogues and TV adds that promote buying.
Help out at a homeless shelter.
Join the mission group at church.
Subscribe to something like the voice of the martyrs or similar to see how many other Christians live.
Ask God to open your eyes so that you might really see what is important (and this is the bottom line – thankfulness sees what is important and cuts away the rest – don’t you want to see what is important in life?!)

The third piece of clothing or attitude is the biggie – hope.
Hope
Do not think that hope is some sort of wishful thinking that is based more in fantasy than reality. Hope deals with the tangible.
The dictionary says that hope is; to yearn for something with expectation of its fulfilment. Faith says I believe that can happen, hope says I know that can happen.
Hope says that what we see is not the full reality but that there is more to come, so much more in fact that if we were to catch a glimpse we would be blown away by its full impact. Hope belongs in the realm of the supernatural and deals with the mystery of God who brings new things out of the old.
An attitude of hope does not let the present circumstance dictated the terms but tells us that life is more than ten and 3 score years. Hope laughs in the face of death. Hope is underscored by the God of the resurrection! And hope is powerful stuff. Underrated and undefeatable.
If you have ever cared to watch any move with a good guy against a whole stack of bad guys you will see the theme of hope. Western comics always the theme of hope. That in desperate time’s good will always win out against evil, that all the wrongs will be righted, that out of destruction salvation emerges.
The world knows about hope but doesn’t know how to access it. And so it becomes more and more filled with despair.
The church is in the hope business. We of all people ought to be known most for our hope; because our hope is founded on something deeper than human ability or wishful thinking. Martin Luther King was fond of citing a distinction between hope and optimism. Optimism believes in progress; that circumstances will get better. Hope, however, is built on the conviction that another reality, another Kingdom, already exists. And so hope endures when hype fades.
Psychologist Martin Seligman, though not religious himself, notes that not only does faith produce hopeful people, but more robust faith produces more robust hope. A great hoper known as Julian of Norwich sang her song from the depths of the Black Plague-infested fourteenth century:
But all shall be well,And all shall be well,And all manner of things shall be well…He did not say, "You shall know no storms, no travails, no disease,"He said, "You shall not be overcome."
How do we develop an attitude of hope?
· Stand fast to what you know is the truth – and get your truth from the most reliable of sources – the bible. Hope says everything will be made right in the end.
· Lady in I am Legend – its so quiet now, you can hear God’s voice. Get to a quiet place to hear his voice. Learn to hear the hope.
· Seek every day to find that other kingdom among the ordinary. What I mean is that God is working in your life and in the lives of those around you – it’s up to us to perceive the hope for today.

What is at stake for us not to do these things? What happens if we don’t foster these attitudes in our lives? Well to some extent we remain like that stinking garbage truck, we remain filled with fear, and ingratitude and despair and in a sense we are not really very nice to be around. The bible says that we are the aroma of Christ to those who are dying. In other words we are attractive because the people who are on the look out for a different way can sense that in us. And that’s what God has called us to do. He has called us to be saved, be renewed and then to tell others about it. We tell others how they can live life well, how they can be free, how they can be saved from all the fear and despair that’s all around. That’s what we have got to do. That’s why its so important to take off our old clothes and put on these new ones. To replace our attitudes with kingdom ones. To take away our old corrupt selves, the full part of us that stinks and get Gods new way of living. And in doing that others will be impacted and see that this Jesus thingo is not just some fad but makes a huge difference in how we live our lives and how we perceive the world.
You must not be deluded to the fact that God is working in us for a reason. God wants to transform us so that we can witness to his work in our lives and so that we can be examples of people who live like they are in the kingdom. There are so many others who need to hear and see and sense this change and you and I are called to be the ones who do that.
God doesn’t want you to be a nice person. God doesn’t want you to be a good church goer or a model citizen. God wants you to be a radical transformed agent for his mission in this world. A living example of how someone in the hands of a holy loving God can be renewed and live differently.
The way you live in respect to your attitudes has a direct bearing on how you influence others around you. Its time to get your attitudes in order so that God can use you for his mission in this world. Don’t play with it, don’t baulk at it. Its time to step up to the plate. Get serious about growing faith, fostering thankfulness and living out of hope. Get serious about knowing the one who makes all these things possible. Get serious about the negative influence of the world or stop playing with the kingdom.
God is calling soldiers to join the ranks. Are you ready to join your attitudes to Gods, to be under his orders? If so the time is now. Pull on your boots, get rid of the old stuff and lets all follow Jesus.
Faith, thankfulness and hope are the areas to work in.

THE ABC'S OF LENT

Tonight we are going to get naked for Jesus. Actually Josh gave me that line and I thought it would get your attention!
I want to talk about taking things off for lent. Next week we will talk about putting things on for lent. Specifically I want to talk tonight about attitudes. And as we role into the season of lent its worth thinking about what is it that we can do without. And what is it that we need.
Wicky says that ‘Many Christian consider the observation of Lent to be a choice, rather than an obligation. They may decide to give up a favorite food or drink (e.g. chocolate, alcohol) or activity (e.g. going to the movies, playing video games) for Lent, or they may instead decide to take on a Lenten discipline such as devotions, volunteering for charity work, and so forth.’
But I want to push us further than chocolate and coffee! Chocolate is not the biggest danger that many of you are going to face and I don’t think that coffee is hazardous to your spiritual health! Should there be more to Lent than just this?
So what would Jesus say to us about our attitudes? Actually if we care to look for a few minutes through the Bible we can see that Jesus says a fair bit! The be-attitudes!
So tonight I want to challenge you about putting off some attitudes that are not what Jesus would endorse. Its time to get naked for Jesus!
Your dictionary.com says that Attitude is a doing word, ‘a manner of acting, feeling, or thinking that shows one's disposition, opinion, etc.’
It’s a bit like this joke that Guy gave me during the week
A woman was at work when she received a phone call that her daughter was very sick with a fever. She left her work and stopped by the pharmacy to get some medication. She got back to her car and found that she had locked her keys in the car.
She didn't know what to do, so she called home and told the baby sitter what had happened. The baby sitter told her that her fever was getting worse. She said, "You might find a coat hanger and use that to open the door."
The woman looked around and found an old rusty coat hanger that had been thrown down on the ground, possibly by someone else who at some time or other had locked their keys in their car. Then she looked at the hanger and said, "I don't know how to use this."
So she bowed her head and asked God to send her some help. Within a couple of minutes an old rusty car pulled up, with a dirty, grimy, bearded man who was wearing an old biker skull rag on his head. The woman thought, "This is what you sent to help me?" But, she was desperate, so she was also very thankful.
The man got out of his car and asked her if he could help. She said, "Yes, my daughter is very sick. I stopped to get her some medication and I locked my keys in my car. I must get home to her. Please, can you use this hanger to unlock my car?"
He said, "Sure". He walked over to the car, and in a few seconds the car was opened. She hugged the man and through her tears she said, "Thank You So Much! You are a very nice man."
The man replied, "Lady, I am not a nice man. I just got out of prison today. I was in prison for car theft and have only been out for about a day."
The woman hugged the man again and with sobbing tears cried out loud, "Oh, Thank you God! You even sent me a Professional!"
Now that’s an attitude I would like to have! Next week I will tell you what to put on but for now
There are 3 Attitudes that we need to put off.
Fear, lack of appreciation and Despair
Listen to what the bible says about this from Ephesians 4:22-24 22You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; 23to be made new in the attitude of your minds; 24and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness (some translations say cloth yourself).
Let me talk about fear
The greatest enemy of faith is not doubt; one of the greatest enemy of faith is fear. Most of the world is controlled by fear. Petty fears control people; great fears control nations. We could feed all the people in this world if we would stop building arms, but we are afraid.
Fear is rampant in the world. The Americans in particular are entering into an age of fear. But we aussies aren’t immune from it. A lot of our current attitudes come out of the database of fear. I think I have spoken to you before about what fences that people are constructing around there houses tell us.
Fear immobilizes us. It makes us unable to live the way we were intended. It makes us react instead of respond – do you see the difference.
Living with an attitude of fear is like only living half a life. It’s like only driving your car in first gear (the other day while driving to work. Living with an attitude of fear hampers your ability to do what you were made to do. Fear says that’s to risky to undertake and so it stops your heart from reaching out.
One of the controlling factors of western society – since 9/11 has been fear. And you, all of us have felt the impact of it. And the media knows it. Boy have they made a lot of news and a heap of money out of this gospel of fear! They know how to sell this message so that each one of us has a good measure of fear inside of us and we become addicted to finding out from them (the media) what things we should be fearful about. They know that if they can push that fear button then they stand to make a bucket load of cash.
Fear has got us trapped in its vice.
An attitude of fear looks something like this;
· There is a voice inside your head telling you that ‘they’ are out to get you and its not safe - even when you have no evidence to the contrary.
· Its when you can picture bad, violent things happening to your family and yourself. And you start to worry about it.
· Its when you hear a story on the news about a horrific crime and you find yourself agreeing that these things are just sooo much more common these days.
· Its when you treat everyone with suspicion
When you find yourself responding out of a fearful attitude that’s when you know its permeated your life and its something we need to get rid off. We have to remove its influence from our lives because it controls us.
Next week I will give you the antidote to fear – so you have to come next week, but let me remind you right now what the gospel says to an attitude of fear it says perfect love drives out all fear. In other words the presence of God does not leave room for fear. When God is present, fear is gone.
We must choose God over fear. We must listen to what the gospel says and refuse to be controlled by fear. Now you can have fear inside of you but when you choose to act despite it that’s when you are not operating out of fear. I know that this is a deep issue but you can choose to not let it control you and your actions.

The next attitude that I believe we need to have a think about is ingratitude, or living with an unthankful mindset.
The old story goes that always pulls me up short goes like this; I was unhappy because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.
Living with un-thankfulness in our heart means that we are always wanting more and we are never satisfied with what we have. Now I don’t know about you but I don’t want to go through life like that. God has blessed us with so much. We have the benefit of so many resources, so many good things.
And I will not let us be corrupted by the rampant consumerism that is destroying our nation. This afluenza is driven by our inability to be thankful for what we have. There is currently an inability in society to ever be content. Don’t let it fool you. Don’t retain the attitude that says more and more is better! That you have to have the newest and the latest. I know the pressure that comes on us to be like this. I feel its pull every single day. But don’t let it bring this disease into your life. Because if we sell out to the attitude of wanting more an more and being un happy with what we have then we simply prostitute ourselves before the temple of stuff. We are slaves to the culture.
Lets begin this lent to discover what we really have. To understand the riches of our circumstance and to rail against the trend of consumerism.
Maybe some of us should think about this;
· Don’t by anything new this season of lent!
· Don’t use eBay until Easter.
· Make a mental note of what we actually have and use in a single day
· For the next week do some research on a disadvantaged group either here or abroad.
· And give away %20 of your income to the church or to directly benefit someone disadvantaged.
If you can or cannot do that would be a good litmus test to see just how much we have sold out to culture.
Living with ingratitude is pulling us down. Its making our lives unhappy, and its leaving us dissatisfied with life.
The simple fact that we are not thankful is harming us. And we have got to get rid of it.
The last thing that I want to talk about taking off for lent is despair.
This, my friends is a big problem. This is something that has got us in its grip like a vice and does not want to let us go.
Despair does not factor in Gods involvement in the world. To despair, when you truly believe that here is no hope, is a very ugly place to be. If you have know anybody who has despaired then you will know what I mean. We must ferret it out and not let it take any ground in our lives.
An attitude of despair says that there is no way out of a problem. It says that God has deserted us and we are doomed.
We hear it all the time in things like ‘I am a failure’ I am hopeless, no one will like me. And we get to see it all the time in the lives of the A list. Heath Ledger is the current example. Despair destroys and shuts down life.
We despair that a situation will ever change; we give up on the notion that God will ever be able to change our world. And in doing so we join in with the rest of humanity and only see what is right in front of us rather than seeing with the eyes of faith that God has given us.
And we let these things conquer over us!
You see its in that moment of absolute struggle, in the context of that hardship that Gods way emerges, if we don’t give up, if we retain hope.
Think about this for a moment. It was Friday and Jesus had been crucified, it was Saturday and Jesus was still dead, but boy oh boy these days turned to Sunday and what a Sunday it was. You see we are not Friday people – even though everyone else is, we are not Saturday people, even though some others are. We see beyond these two events and become Sunday people. Sunday where despair turns to hope and a hope that does not disappoint us.
Even in the midst of struggle despair is not for the people of God.
After having dug to a depth of 10 metres last year, Scottish Archaeologistsfound traces of copper wire dating back 100 years and came to the conclusionthat their ancestors already had a telephone network more than 100 yearsago.Not to be outdone by the Scots, in the weeks that followed Englishscientists dug to a depth of 20 metres, and shortly after, headlines in theUK newspapers read: "English Archaeologists have found traces of 200 yearold copper wire and have concluded that their ancestors already had anadvanced high-tech communications network a hundred years earlier than theScots."One week later, "The Kerryman," a southwest Irish newsletter, reported thefollowing: "After digging as deep as 30 metres in peat bog near Tralee,Paddy O'Droll, a self taught Archaeologist, reported that he foundabsolutely nothing. Paddy has therefore concluded that 300 years agoIreland had already gone wireless."
Its time for us to get rid of these perverse attitudes of fear, ingratitude and despair. Its time to stop being like everyone else. Its time to respond in the freedom that God gives us.
My prayer for you this lent is that you will discard the things that don’t matter and put on the things that do.